35 Would You Rather Questions For Adults - for Games, Parties, and Icebreakers

1. Funny and Lighthearted Questions

Great for breaking the ice and bringing out a few laughs.

Question	Option 1	Option 2
Would you rather always have to sing instead of speaking or dance instead of walking?	Sing everything	Dance everywhere
Would you rather have unlimited time or unlimited money?	Unlimited time	Unlimited money
Would you rather give up coffee or wine for a year?	Coffee	Wine
Would you rather always be 10 minutes late or 20 minutes early to everything?	10 minutes late	20 minutes early
Would you rather always have an annoying song stuck in your head or an itchy feeling you can’t scratch?	Annoying song stuck	Itchy feeling you can’t scratch

Perfect for getting to know each other on a deeper level and sparking meaningful conversations.

Question	Option 1	Option 2
Would you rather know when you’re going to die or how you’re going to die?	When you’re going to die	How you’re going to die
Would you rather find your dream job or win the lottery but never work again?	Dream job	Win the lottery
Would you rather have a guaranteed happy life or a life of extreme challenges that lead to growth?	Guaranteed happy life	Challenging life with growth
Would you rather be able to change the past or see into the future?	Change the past	See into the future
Would you rather be respected or liked by everyone you meet?	Respected	Liked

Perfect for couples or close friends who want to get to know each other better.

Question	Option 1	Option 2
Would you rather find true love once or have multiple flings that last a lifetime?	Find true love	Multiple flings
Would you rather be with someone who is funny but not attractive or attractive but not funny?	Funny but not attractive	Attractive but not funny
Would you rather be able to read your partner’s mind or have them read yours?	Read partner’s mind	Partner reads your mind
Would you rather never argue with your partner or always know how to resolve a disagreement?	Never argue	Know how to resolve disagreements
Would you rather have a big wedding or a small, intimate celebration?	Big wedding	Small celebration

Great for work gatherings or team-building exercises.

Question	Option 1	Option 2
Would you rather work a high-paying job you hate or a low-paying job you love?	High-paying job	Low-paying job
Would you rather work remotely forever or in an office with amazing coworkers?	Remote work	Office with great coworkers
Would you rather have your dream job with a terrible boss or an average job with a fantastic boss?	Dream job, terrible boss	Average job, fantastic boss
Would you rather retire early and live modestly or work for longer but live luxuriously?	Retire early, live modestly	Work longer, live luxuriously
Would you rather never have another meeting or never write another email?	No more meetings	No more emails

Great for adults with a love for travel, adventure, or life experience.

Question	Option 1	Option 2
Would you rather travel to a new city every month or revisit your favorite city every year?	New city every month	Favorite city every year
Would you rather go backpacking in Europe or road-tripping across the United States?	Backpack in Europe	Road-trip across the U.S.
Would you rather have an all-expenses-paid vacation to a luxury resort or an exciting adventure trip?	Luxury resort	Adventure trip
Would you rather go skydiving once or bungee jump multiple times?	Skydiving	Bungee jump
Would you rather visit every country in the world or explore space?	Visit every country	Explore space

Perfect for adults who love technology, social media, or debating modern-day dilemmas.

Question	Option 1	Option 2
Would you rather never use social media again or never watch another TV show or movie?	No social media	No TV/movies
Would you rather give up your smartphone or give up your computer?	Smartphone	Computer
Would you rather lose all your saved photos or lose all your saved contacts?	Photos	Contacts
Would you rather have your entire search history exposed or never use a search engine again?	Search history exposed	No search engine
Would you rather always have a poor internet connection or no access to social media?	Poor internet	No social media

For adults who want to imagine different lifestyles and financial choices.

Question	Option 1	Option 2
Would you rather win $1 million now or $100,000 every year for 10 years?	$1 million now	$100,000 annually
Would you rather be able to shop for free at any one store or eat for free at any one restaurant?	Free shopping	Free dining
Would you rather own a luxurious mansion or a cozy beach house?	Luxurious mansion	Cozy beach house
Would you rather never pay for gas again or never pay for flights again?	Free gas	Free flights
Would you rather always have a luxury car or always have a private chef?	Luxury car	Private chef

Set the Tone: Decide whether you want the game to be funny, deep, or a mix of both, depending on the group.
Encourage Explanations: Why each person chose an option often reveals interesting insights.
No Right or Wrong Answers: Everyone is free to share their thoughts without judgment.
Adapt the Game: Some questions might not be a fit for every group, so skip or replace questions as needed.

Think of relatable topics like work, relationships, and travel, then create two choices that feel like tough but fun decisions.

Absolutely! A balance of both can keep the game interesting and allow for a range of emotions.

It’s great for parties, dinners, team-building events, and even online gatherings.

It can be as long or short as you like, but typically 15–30 minutes keeps things fun and engaging without dragging on.

Yes, teams can choose answers together, which is a great way to build camaraderie and share laughs.